This isn't douche bag 101 sweetie, you're PhD level now...

Every time I think that my ex may be having tremors of human I'm reminded of his true sub humanness. My ex makes good money, over 100K/ year so he's far from slumming it. However, he pleads poverty any time he has to pay child support (which had to be court-ordered b/c of his refusal to pay) or daycare - which he still owes me some from 2009. Our separation agreement had already laid out the pro rata share we both owed for daycare, but he has refused to pay a penny because he doesn't like that my mother is watching our child. She's not retired, and she moved with us to help with our move to Charlotte. She doesn't want the money, but I feel it's right to pay her because she is taking time out of her day and HE and I SHOULD PAY for our child's care when we are at work. It's only 6 days a week, so it's not big money but it is the point of it all. The people who love her don't want her to be in daycare with people we don't know, but her father doesn't give a shit. His vendetta to have everything as he wants it overshadows our daughter's needs every time. He's now decided that he will only pay my mother $1.70 per hour for daycare. My god - he is such a piece of shit. Last week he had emailed me that he was finally going to pay his portion of the daycare and I saw this little ray of hope that progress could be made - and then he told me that he was paying what he and his lawyer thought was reasonable. In what third world country does he want his child cared for? Dear ex husband. YOU are the living, breathing definition of a deadbeat douchebag.